In another lifetime, I used to referee sparring matches at karate tournaments.
This was before my pilgrimage to the Holy Land (Okinawa in my case), when I came to believe that turning our sacred art into a game was a sacrilege.
Still, one thing I kept from that experience was simple but worth hanging on to: call the point.
At the time, that meant that whatever I thought of the personality, style, instructor or uniform of the fighter I was judging, I needed to watch as objectively as possible and call the point if a legitimate technique hit a legitimate target.
It was a matter of fair play, and one which our world is sorely lacking.
For that reason, I make an effort to "call the point" when people I usually disagree with do the right thing or make a valid point.
So, in that spirit, I want to call a point in favor of (now former) Republican Kentucky governor Matt Bevin, who announced today that he would concede the election to his opponent Andy Beshear.
It goes without saying that I opposed Bevin's attacks on Medicaid and public education and pretty much everything else. But he probably could have dragged out the recount and pulled all kinds of strings to annul the results.,
He didn't. So, not that anyone cares what I think about Kentucky, I award him with an ippon (Japanese for full point).
Another basic rule of fair play I took from those days is this: when your opponent is no longer a threat to you or those you love, it's OK chill out.